We are pleased to have a guest blogger for this month’s post: Bill Grant, of Ultimate Companions Dog Training, who conducts classes at both The Crate Escape in Richmond and The Crate Escape, Too in South Burlington. Bill also conducts classes in Putney and Montpelier. He covers a very important topic. We hope you like it.
GREETING DOGS SAFELY
As many of you may have heard there was a recent dog bite incident that seems to have sparked interest and media hype across the nation. In early February, Kyle Dyer, a Colorado news anchor, was bitten in the face by an Argentine Mastiff. This happened on live TV. The video was posted on YouTube and quickly went viral. For weeks, people have been commenting on this incident and it continues to hold the attention of folks across the nation. I thought it might be helpful and informative to discuss the bite, share some thoughts on it and also provide some tips on safety when meeting dogs. If you haven’t seen the video, watch it here and then come back and read on……….
Pretty horrific, huh? AND, a total shame… In a bit, I’ll post a follow up interview with Ms. Dyer, who really seems to be handling her injuries with quite a bit of grace, especially since she has been severely criticized for her actions during the broadcast, and actually blamed for causing the bite…
What’s really fascinating to me is that after seeing the video, I showed it to about 30 people. Some of them were dog professionals and some were not. Across the board, reactions varied as some people, “in the know” saw nothing in the video that seemed to be an indicator that something bad was about to happen. At the same time, I had a few friends who aren’t involved with dogs at all who thought the dog looked stressed, unhappy and uneasy. It amazes me how thousands of people can watch the same video and see (or not see) something different.
For some other strange reason, people seem insistent on placing blame here: on the dog, on Kyle, on the owner, the news station etc. I think that instead of looking for someone to blame, the situation does give us the opportunity to talk more about education and what people really need to know about meeting dogs, their levels of stress, some of the warning signs and how to help prevent situations like this from happening again.
Let’s look at what we do know. This particular dog had been rescued just 16 hours before from being trapped in an icy pond. The dog chased after a coyote and found himself unable to get out of the water. A firefighter had to pull him out. In the midst of recovering from and processing what had happened to him, the dog was brought to an unfamiliar place and placed under strange lights. There were strange sounds, cameras, and lots of strange people. If you’ve never been in an environment like that, think of what that must have been like for the dog. Now, go back and watch the video again. If you can, watch it in slow motion and really tune into the dog’s body language. What can you see? He is rapidly fluttering his eyes, a sign of stress. Look at how the owner is holding tightly to his collar and restricting his movement, preventing him from retreating if he wanted to. The firefighter is pulling on his ear. The dog was licking excessively and panting and alternated between pulling his mouth back and pushing it forward in a grimace, all of which are signs of stress and discomfort. At one point, the dog tried to turn himself away to avoid Kyle, who continued to stroke his muzzle and face. Kyle then got in to the dog’s face to kiss him, thus resulting in the bite. This dog really was trying to exercise self-control, but really couldn’t handle any more stress and didn’t feel like he had any other alternative.
So is this ok? Of course not! As a rule, dogs really shouldn’t bite people. Dogs are thrown into situations like this often when someone who “just loves dogs!” gets in to the dog’s face and kisses them or the kids grab the dog from behind, or whatever, and they often don’t bite. Dogs with a truly stable temperament and emotional security SHOULD have the innate ability to absorb the information that’s being presented to them and instinctively know whether or not it’s a threat, so certainly this does say something about the dog’s temperament. Again though, this situation was complicated with extenuating circumstances that were contributing factors.
Taking all of these circumstances into account, it seems like it would be pretty easy to say that the dog was at fault or that the people involved were at fault. I don’t personally think anyone was truly at fault. It’s just a bad situation that happened. In fact, Kyle Dyer herself called the incident a “Perfect Storm.” What I DO think we need to take away from this is one of the main reasons that contributed to this bite. For me, the biggest issue here is that we assume that dogs are people in dog bodies and we give them way too much credit for being able to rationalize our position towards them. We expect that because we rescued this dog from an icy pond and because we were so thrilled about his rescue that we wanted to tell the world how happy we were about it, that he would be happy too. We expected that he would feel our joy and be thankful and appreciative. Right???? It’s truly when we give dogs credit for this level of thinking that we get into trouble. Dogs are dogs!!!!! They operate on different instincts and drives and no matter how hard we try and how much their actions might fool us, they aren’t going to feel all of the same emotions we do in the ways we expect them to. As I mentioned at the beginning, the purpose of this whole article is to stress education. If we can make more people aware of how dogs think and behave and how they may perceive things that are perfectly normal to us as stressors, we are much more likely to understand how to approach them properly and MUCH less likely to avoid future tragedies like this one.
One would think that Kyle Dyer would be bitter about what happened to her. I thought it would be nice to post a follow up interview with her two weeks after being bitten. I have to say I was impressed with her responses. See what you think….

I really hope that although this was a terrible incident, it provided a platform for us to talk about this with people who really are unaware of how dogs should be greeted and approached. I think some of the tips below might be helpful for anyone who finds themselves in a situation where they are meeting a new dog. Hopefully they will help:
DON’TS:
1. Don’t lean over a dog and stick your hands in their faces. Coming over a dog from up high can be perceived as threatening.
2. Don’t repeatedly pat or “bop” them on the top of the head… Although we tend to pat dogs like this, it doesn’t feel very good. Does it feel good to you?
3. Don’t GRAB a dog by the collar. Dogs often associate having their collars grabbed with something negative.
4. Don’t HUG a dog. They can feel squished and claustrophobic and trapped.
5. Don’t STARE dogs directly in the face and make prolonged eye contact with them. They can perceive this as a threat.
6. Try not to make loud noises or erratic movements when meeting a dog. This particularly applies to children. Children should ALWAYS be supervised around dogs!
7. DON’T KISS dogs in the face. Although you might get licked, this doesn’t necessarily mean that this dog is happy. Excessive licking can be a sign of nervousness and sometimes it’s hard to tell the difference.
8. If a friend wants you to come meet or see their dog who is in the car, don’t EVER stick your hands or face into the car window!!! EVER! Have friends bring their dogs out of the car so you can meet them properly.
DO’S:
1. Approach dogs slowly and from the side. Speak quietly.
2. Let the dog come to you. Offer the back of a hand to sniff.
3. Pat dogs on the side of their body or back. Ask the dog’s owner for tips on what his dog likes or if it likes being touched by strangers at all.
I’m sure this is a list we could add to in some detail, but even these basics will help in the prevention of future incidents. Hopefully you find this informative and helpful and feel free to share this with friends.
Thanks for reading!
Bill Grant
Ultimate Companions Dog Training
www.ultimatecompanion.com